Dear Experts, My name is Jeff and I recently just started a sales job with a good company based in Dallas. The people there are great and the company is really loyal with its employees. The problem is, I am a marketing/creative/writing guy and don't really enjoy inside sales at all. I feel drained after every day and off of my career path. I basically interviewed for this job, knowing I already did not like sales from previous job experience, but to just get a job so I could have money and to see if I could get the job for the heck of it. Well, I got it and have been working there for a month and a half. The other people there are great, and they mostly seem to like sales and enjoy it. I feel like I am just faking it just for the paycheck and am more of an extroverted introvert who likes marketing, writing, creating, and strategizing. I have an interview this Saturday with someone who I have good relations with for the past couple years who owns their own rapidly growing marketing firm. My question is, if I do get a job at this marketing company, is it rude for me to quit my other job so soon. They have an employee at will rule where you can just quit without two week notice, but how would you recommend handling this situation so as to not leave ill will between my current boss, (who happens to be in the same workout class as my mother) and myself. I wouldn't mind coming back to my current company in a different role in the future. This is getting kinda long so I apologize, but basically does it look bad to quit a job so soon if you get hired for something you really would like to do after only a month and a half? Here is how our CAREEREALISM-Approved Experts answered this question on Twitter: Q#402 It's not rude to leave, just explain the situation and don't burn your bridged. And give two weeks notice... (@gradversity) Q#402 We all make career choices that don't work. Better to leave now before they invest too much in you. (@jtodonnell) Q#402 If you have another job opportunity, explain situation to current employers & be accommodating to them. (@keppie_careers) Q#402 Lesson learned: don't take job for "heck of it" if you know it's not for you. (@keppie_careers) Q#402 Leaving co after brief tenure certainly isn't right for them. They now have to rehire; retrain. (@teenarose) Q#402 They likely won't b happy, but u can't control that. Figuring it out early may help u save face. Go w/ your gut. (@lauralabovich) Q#402 Need to be true to yourself. If you decide to leave give notice & explain your heart is in something else. Be professional about it. (@DebraWheatman) Q#402 Yes, it looks bad. But it's better than faking/hating what you do. Tell them the truth (not a good fit). (@beneubanks) Q#402 Give 2 weeks notice, explain u love co yet now see sales not right 4 u, better 2 leave b4 disappoint boss. (@juliaerickson) Q#402 Better leave than stay uninspired/underperforming. Say you realize is not the job 4 you. Just don't make it a habit. (@CareerBranches) Q#402 While I strongly recommend you give 2 weeks notice, don't feel guilty about leaving a job. It's your career! (@heatherhuhman) Our Twitter Advice Project (T.A.P.) is no longer an active campaign. To find an answer to the above question, please use the "Search" box in the right-hand column of this website.

Public speaking can’t always be avoided in the business world when you’re tapped on the shoulder to give a presentation to your peers or to an important client.
Even in the age of home video conferencing, it’s still very natural to feel like you’d rather do ANYTHING other than turn on that camera, take a deep breath, and feel everyone’s eyes on you…watching.
Ever wonder how actors push through stage fright?
As a trained actor and coach (prior to entering the business world), I’ve learned to not be timid while orating Shakespeare in the spotlight or when hitting those high notes in front of thousands of eyeballs.
Not surprisingly, the same tricks actors use can be applied to public speaking in a business context. Here are some tips from an actor-turned-business-professional on calming your nerves.
Tip #1: Put Yourself In The Audience’s Seats
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I always get incredibly nervous right before a singing audition. I’ve found what helps lessen my anxiety is to do as a fellow performer once suggested and put myself in the director’s chair. (The director is typically the person who decides if you are cast in the show).
The director WANTS you to do well! They want you to be the perfect person for the role—able to garner good reviews and box office sales. They want you to do so well that they could even tell everyone else to go home; they’ve found their star.
Plus, no director wants to sit through hours and hours of bad singing auditions…would you?
Likewise with public speaking.
When have you ever found yourself listening to a speaker and wished that they would be boring? Or wanted them to bomb so badly that you get nothing from their talk?
Rather, you probably hope the speaker is so dynamite that you actually forget to take notes because you are so transfixed and inspired by their message.
Know that the audience is on your side and let that encourage you. They want you to do well.
Tip #2: Give ‘Em The Old Razzle-Dazzle
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I love to tap dance. Sometimes (ok, quite often), my feet don’t move as quickly as they should and I mess up a step or two…or ten.
A choreographer once taught me that a major part of dancing, and where the audience usually focuses, is all in the face and arms. If you are smiling a 1,000-watt smile and making grand arm gestures, the audience isn’t likely to see that your feet messed up that paradiddle step. (Yes, that’s a real thing!)
Public speaking also follows this rule. The audience can’t tell that you are nervous and feel like you just might pass out.
Bluff it! Put on your smile and stand tall. Walk with purpose and speak with authority, even if you feel unsure of yourself. It can feel weird, but you have to trust me here.
When you act as if you are confident, the audience will assume you are confident. Your body will even convince your brain into believing that you are, in fact, confident!
What if you DO mess up? So what? Keep going! Don’t drop your poise and strong voice, as they are effectively drawing attention away from any insecurities that may come up, just like jazz hands can help cover for missing a step-shuffle-ball-change.
Tip #3: Enter The Clown
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Actors have learned that mistakes are bound to happen and sometimes you have to play the fool.
For instance, props or scenery may break or fall unexpectedly during a show. Actors are taught to pretend like it is supposed to happen, and work it into the scene. Or they may quickly remove the wayward item and simply continue on.
I’ve even witnessed actors stumble and fall onstage, then make a comment about what a klutz they are (in character, of course!) and continue on like it was scripted that way.
Let’s say during your speech you trip up on some words unexpectedly. Work it into the presentation as if you meant for it to happen. For example: “The biggest finanbial chamanges…a-hem, well those lesser-known things…as well as the biggest financial challenges we face are…”
Call yourself out and you get an on-the-spot joke to lighten the mood—and the audience loves you for it.
Or let’s say you knock over your glass of water while speaking. That’s the perfect time to make a crack about how uncoordinated you are and why you never made the basketball team. (*Rimshot please!*)
Tip #4: “Once Again From The Top, Ah-5-6-7-8!”
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Actors spend hours, days…weeks! memorizing their lines to be “word perfect” right down to the smallest pause. They get every tilt of the head, every gesture, and every single word into muscle memory.
When opening night comes, no matter how much their stomach is turning over like they’re on a cruise ship in a hurricane, they can effectively put themselves on autopilot and get through the show without a hitch.
Now, with this tip, I would NEVER recommend that you, as a public speaker, go to the extremes actors do.
Why? Memorizing isn’t necessary for public speaking. In fact, I strongly suggest you don’t memorize, as you risk coming off as “fake.”
Rehearsing on the other hand is a must!
Rehearse in front of a mirror…while shopping for groceries…in front of a friend. Video or audio record yourself and play it back.
If possible, practice in the actual space where you will be speaking (yes, even if it’s in your home office) to get a feel for it so that it doesn’t disorient you on the big day.
Your goal is to know your main points and examples while allowing yourself to improvise here and there with different words and phrases to keep it fresh.
If you try to memorize and you forget a sentence while speaking, it has the tendency to really trip you up unless you’re a seasoned pro. However, if you practice experimenting with different ways of saying things, you’re building your quick-thinking prowess and ability to handle the unexpected while in the spotlight.
Notes are, of course, perfectly acceptable, but you don’t want to stay buried in your notes resulting in never making eye contact with the audience (or webcam).
Another no-no is clearly reading from a script while on a video conference. Reading a script is one of the best ways to disengage the audience unless you are very good at making it sound conversational…a tough skill to master.
Instead, know your speech so well that glancing at the first few words on a notecard will propel you into that part of the speech, without having to constantly refer to your notes.
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Remember that public speaking is one fear that, with a little practice and the right mindset, can be overcome. Who knows, you may start to crave the spotlight so much that I’ll see you at the next audition!