Dear Experts, I had an interview yesterday. The first person I met with was great. We really hit it off, laughing and had the same views on everything. But then I was introduced to the person I'd be reporting to. She was completely different. She is also new to the company and I sensed something was wrong. At one point she said, "Wow, sounds like you were having a good time in there. You both were laughing so hard the whole office heard you." Did I do something wrong? I really want this job. The company is great and I think I could do great things for them, but I'm afraid the manager who I'd be reporting to has a problem with me. What can I do to fix this? Here is how our T.A.P. experts answered this question:Q#278 In TY note, I'd mention how gr8 it was 2 feel rapport, just the kind of co U'd like 2 work at. (@juliaerickson) Our Twitter Advice Project (T.A.P.) is no longer an active campaign. To find an answer to the above question, please use the "Search" box in the right-hand column of this website.

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