We've all received an email that rubbed us the wrong way.
This may not have been intentional, but it still happened. Email is an essential part of the modern workplace, but it can be a tough way to communicate. You're not talking to someone face-to-face, which means they can't read your body language or hear your tone. This can lead to a lot of misinterpretation.
What you're trying to say in an email isn't always received in that way. Certain phrases that you use to mean one thing could mean a totally different thing to your recipient, and as a result, your message could be lost in translation.
To avoid any misinterpretation, make sure you eliminate these phrases in your work emails.
"Per My Last Email"
Do yourself a favor and erase this phrase from your email vocabulary.
While you may use it to reference something in your last email, it comes off as SUPER passive-aggressive. You're essentially saying, "Hey, I addressed this in my last email, and you should have looked at it before emailing me a second time." That's not leaving a good impression on anyone.
There are MUCH better ways of getting your point across without coming off passive-aggressive. For starters, you could simply state your point again, instead of saying "per my last email." That way, you address the situation directly and your message doesn't come off the wrong way.
Now, some people may not see this phrase as negative...but hear us out.
Using this phrase (especially at the end of an email) can give your email the wrong tone. It could come off as a challenge rather than a request. It could also come off as passive-aggressive in the wrong context. For example, if you're elaborating on an issue and put "please advise" at the end, you could come off as saying, "Here's what I'm doing to try and fix the issue, however I can tell you don't agree with it, so tell me your opinion on what I should do." That's not a good tone to set with anyone.
Grammarly offers some great alternatives to this phrase. See if you can use one of those in an email instead of "please advise." However, if you must use it, be sure to set it up properly and set the right tone.
This phrase is simply unnecessary and can come off as a bit rude, especially if you put it in a first email to someone.
Think about it. If you're typing "to reiterate" in an email, it's because you assume the recipient didn't understand your message the first time. When you use this phrase, you're basically saying "I know you didn't understand this, so here it is AGAIN."
This phrase can rub people the wrong way, especially if you use it in a first email to someone. Give them the chance to read your email before assuming they won't get the point. If they have questions, they'll send a follow-up email. THAT'S your chance to (nicely and professionally) explain your point again.
Look, we get it. You're a busy person, and sometimes you need a fast reply.
However, there are other ways to get a fast reply from someone without saying "prompt reply" in your email. How would you feel if you got an email from someone saying "I look forward to your prompt reply." You feel like you're on the spot, right? It also implies that your matter should take priority over your recipient's other matters (and that's not always the case.)
At the end of the day, this phrase can rub people the wrong way. If you need a fast reply from someone, try giving them a call instead of emailing them. Chances are, they'll get back to you faster since your message isn't stacked in their inbox.
"Just Checking In"
LOTS of people use this phrase at work. People tend to think this a lighthearted way to check in on things.
However, using this phrase when following up at work can do more damage than you think. When you use it, you're basically saying, "Hey, I noticed you haven't done your part yet." You're checking in on them in a (seemingly) nonchalant way, but trust me, the recipient of your email will see through it. It could really rub them the wrong way, especially since you aren't being direct about what you want in your email.
There are plenty of other ways to follow up via email without using the phrase "just checking in," so please, use one of them next time you're looking for a status update.
At the end of the day, it's important you set the right tone in your work emails. Using the right words in the right context can save you from coming off the wrong way. Having a clear and direct message in emails is crucial for workplace communications, and by eliminating these phrases from your email arsenal, you'll be a better communicator.
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