Networking is awkward – period. I used to stand around tabletops with resumes and home-printed business cards in my shiny new “work bag," eager to find just one person to connect with that would lead me to my first job. I had to convince myself not to walk out of almost every event I attended. I knew there was this thing called networking and I needed to do it if I wanted to secure a job. I just didn’t know how to do it or that it involved more than asking for employment. Related: 5 Quick Tips For More Confident Networking Like you, I thought I earned my right to have a career. I went to college, got good grades, and stayed out of trouble. As a result of my hard work, I deserved a job - a good paying, fun, brag-about-the-position kind of job. I graduated magna cum laude, completed an internship, and was involved in leadership activities. I did college “right,” but I was still unemployed after graduation. I faced the harsh reality head on that my degree did not entitle me to a job. So, there I was, “networking.” Or so I thought. Social media has completely refined “networking” and it's easier than you think. It’s something you are doing already and you're probably missing awesome opportunities right in front of you! So, it’s not that you don’t know how to network. In fact, you are a pro at networking. Every time you accept a friend, follower, or connection, the “net worth” in your network increases dramatically! You just need to activate your network. There is a theory called the Six Degrees of Separation, developed by Frigyes Karinthy. The theory suggests that we are only six introductions away from anyone else in the world. Think about it, right now you are six introductions away from your first job. That sure sounds a heck of a lot better than applying to hundred more jobs!

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