‘JT & Dale Talk Jobs’ is the largest nationally syndicated career advice column in the country and can be found at JTandDale.com.Dear J.T. & Dale: There's a job opening at a local hospital for a health information tech, which is the job I am currently studying for. Is it OK to offer my volunteer services for a job? I'd do it to get the position and get some experience in the field. However, I spoke to someone who told me that volunteering does not count as "experience." What do you say? — Shaista Dale: While I agree that it would be extremely useful experience, I can't imagine the hospital accepting your offer. Why not? First, the goal of most department managers is to hire the person who needs the least training/hand-holding. A volunteer would look like a lot of work and a distraction. Plus, a manager is going to think, "If you aren't getting paid, what's to keep you from taking off whenever you feel like it?" And, beyond all that, the manager would know that in organizational life and logic, if you don't hire an employee to fill a position, there's a good chance that the slot will get taken away. Take all those together, and the typical manager will not even give serious thought to taking you on as a volunteer. Besides, coming in with "I'll work for free" will not make a compelling case for hiring you — it'll just seem desperate. J.T.: I would agree...IF you just offer to take the job opening at no pay. Instead, put the proposition in language that the manager can accept: Ask if you could come in as an intern. If you explain how it would complement your coursework, there's a good chance they'd love to have you join the group, especially if you bring energy and enthusiasm. Dale: That's a good solution. And "intern" will be more impressive than "volunteer" when looking for a job. However, if the internship idea doesn't work, do look for ways to volunteer at the hospital, just not as a "free employee." J.T.: It isn't true that volunteering doesn't count as experience. Even if you aren't getting paid, you are learning while meeting people who eventually could serve as references or networking contacts. Dale: Volunteering may not be the ideal resume item, but you'll make yourself an insider, and that could make all the difference. One analysis of hiring in the current economy shows that "inside" hiring has dramatically increased — half of available jobs are filled by people already inside the company. And that doesn't count employee referrals. In this, the Time of No Time, managers want to avoid doing an extensive search, and they don't want to risk a bad hire — so why not turn to a bright volunteer or intern? Why not you? Jeanine "J.T." Tanner O'Donnell is a professional development specialist and the founder of the consulting firm, jtodonnell.com, and of the blog, CAREEREALISM.com. Dale Dauten resolves employment and other business disputes as a mediator with AgreementHouse.com. Please visit them at jtanddale.com, where you can send questions via e-mail, or write to them in care of King Features Syndicate, 300 W. 57th St, 15th Floor, New York, NY 10019. © 2010 by King Features Syndicate, Inc.
June 28, 2022
Disagreeing with other people, without taking a body count or courting disaster, is something most people try to avoid. Nevertheless, we recognize we can't always agree with everything that comes our way—even if it comes from the boss.
Many of us think disagreeing with the boss is one of those career-limiting moves to be avoided at all costs. Think again. Most managers want to think they've hired brilliant people who can think and act well on the company's behalf. That includes not letting them (or anyone else) drive off a metaphorical cliff. This means you are being paid to use your brain AND mouth.
The diversity that takes place in the workplace isn't just about race or religion; it's about ideas, perspectives, and insight. If you are truly engaging in what is taking place at work, it's not possible to agree with your boss 100% of the time.
You can disagree with your boss and make that disagreement a win-win for both of you. You can win because you can use it for career enhancement. The boss can win because they will come off as an engaging manager and get a much better end result.
Here are eight tips to turn disagreement into a great thing for your career.
1. Disagree, But Don't Be Disagreeable
When something strikes you as wrong or out of line, keep your emotions in check. No one, especially the boss, will appreciate an emotionally charged rebuttal. People tend to mirror each other's energy level, and if you turn red and flap your arms, it will be met with equal intensity.
2. Don't Make It Personal
The conversation will go much better if you are addressing the issue or topic and not making your disagreement about the person, your boss.
3. Be Clear About What You Don't Agree With
If you can't articulate what is troubling you about something, wait until you can be clear. If you can't be clear, you will not have a conversation that will make any sense to the other person. A confusing conversation will not leave a great impression.
4. Offer Alternatives
Nothing falls flatter than squashing an idea only to have nothing to replace it with. If you can't think up a better idea, then what good is the disagreement? Sure, you might not like the idea, but if you can't come up with something else, then go with what you have. You have to solve problems to be an asset.
5. Make Things Private
Depending on the setting and issue, you may need to take your disagreement to a private setting with your boss. This allows you to cover whatever you need to, have a discussion, and keep both of you looking good to the rest of the office.
You never want to embarrass your boss; if you do, they will remember it for much too long. They will appreciate your sensitivity and professionalism when you have the insight to know when it's time to have a private discussion.
6. Seek To Understand
Many conflicts and disagreements are rooted in a failure to communicate and understand the other person. When something does arise that doesn't hit you right, ask questions and gain clarity. You may discover that you do agree after all. Doing this will also help you avoid discomfort.
7. Don't Be A "Yes" Person
This is more than simply sucking up to the boss. This is agreeing with the boss at the cost of your character, values, and career. You might think it will enhance your career, but it will backfire against you as the higher-ups see that your contributions are limited.
8. Disagree And Commit
The biggest issue that managers have when employees disagree is their becoming insubordinate and undermining efforts. If you have followed all of these steps and you still have a disagreement, then it's time for you to disagree and commit yourself to whatever is being proposed. After all, the idea or direction might really work out well. Your manager will think you are truly a professional if you can work through your disagreement, offer solutions, and be able to "get on board."
Certainly, out there in the universe are managers with fragile egos who can't tolerate anyone disagreeing with their mandates or directions. They too will only get just so far in their career. Anytime you limit the free flow of thought and contribution, you limit the possibilities.
You need to screen for these people in your job search. If you wound up with a boss like that, you should consider a different team or job. But most managers enjoy discussion and debate as a means of developing great ideas and direction. They understand that disagreement is part of the process.
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There are lots of other ways to tell your brand story. Whatever you do, make sure your messaging is consistent with your brand and its culture, and use your voice to stand out and be authentically you.
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