
[youtube http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oMPWObAxiAo&feature=bf_next&list=UUM4d4vlR_63WQJv6UxTwZqg&lf=plcp expand=1] It's funny how many well-intended people give out the single worst, I mean REALLY bad piece of job seeker advice to their family and friends. As you can imagine, whenever I get caught up in a conversation about my work, people always want to tell me about a job seeker they know and the advice they gave them. It goes something like this:
THEM: So J.T., what do you do? ME: I'm a career coach. THEM: Really? Oh, do I know someone you could help. My (insert friend or family member here), has been out of work for a while. And you know what their problem is? They aren't applying to enough jobs. Honestly, I don't know what they are doing all day. They've got eight hours of free time. You'd think if they wanted a job bad enough, they'd be applying to 100+ jobs each day.Ugh! It's gotten to the point I just smile and nod and say, "I'm sorry to hear they are struggling. Let them know about CAREEREALISM becuase I think it can help." I don't bother explaining any more why that is the single worst piece of job seeker advice on the planet.