Being without a job is tough. When you are out of work for an extended period of time, crisis of confidence sets in. And once it takes hold, it can be hard to shake. The problem is that confidence is the No. 1 thing we need to land a job. Without it, we come across as weak, insecure and desperate. If you, or someone you know, are in this situation, the following are four words to avoid using. In a recent article I wrote for AOL Jobs, I list four toxic words that can hurt the unemployed. Read The Full Article Photo Credit: Shutterstock